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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem is that men who want to take advantage of “equality” in splitting the check don’t necessarily want to put in equal work in the other aspects of the relationship/household. [/quote] The problem is that women who want to take advantage and not be equal in splitting the check don't necessarily want to put in equal work to be a financial partner in the relationship. They don't share the financial responsibility for the relationship or household. They should just add traditional gender roles option to dating apps. Let the men who want to pay and the woman who want to be pretty for their man - meet up. Then the people for whom those qualities are important in a mate can find each other. Let the gentlemanly and ladylike people find each other easier and let those of us who want more equality rule them out faster. [/quote] You can't have your cake and eat it but not share the cost. Either have traditional roles or have modern style equality.[/quote] This might be what you think but there are plenty of men who are happy to pay for the dates and have an equitable marriage. A man insisting women pay for dates isn't some sign of commitment to feminism. I think it makes you sound like a jerk. [/quote] If a woman expects men to pay for dates, she is is also acting as a cheap jerk.[/quote] So…don’t date women who don’t want to pay. I don’t understand why this is hard.[/quote] Because they want to date a woman too hot and too young to offer to pay, then complain about her on the internet. [/quote] I never, ever complain about paying for a woman in her 20s. She doesn't even have to be hot. I'll happily pay, because those women are the best dates. [/quote]
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