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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly is it that you want him to do? The post is confusing for me.[/quote]

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She wants him to bus tables on the day of the party. Also, take care of the kids. He should not spend time with his friends doing fun stuff. Why? Because OP does not know how to handle such events and should have outsourced it. [/quote]

He wants to spend Thursday-Sunday having a fun reunion with his cousins and college buddies. During that time, he doesn't want OP to ask hi for any kind of assistance with anything unless she's asked everyone else first, and it doesn't sound like he wants to spend any time with her or his children. Theoretically, THOSE are the people who he should be celebrating his milestones with. Celebrations that exclude those people seem pretty performative and immature to me.

Also, you didn't read the thread. OP wants to outsource it. Her husband doesn't.[/quote]

OP here. This is exactly it. He just said to me that the day after the party, he will be at a sports bar with his friends.
So he is in fact announcing that he is MIA, but for the party,  on Thurs, Fri, Sat, and Sunday.
What will be next? Breakfast on Monday? I kid, but not really.
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So what is the party for?[/quote]

So what if he is, OP? Are you that helpless that you can’t handle kids for a few days? Don’t you ever travel for work?[/quote]

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