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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are all these happy marriages you folks are seeing and wishing for?  I literally can't think of a single married couple I know where I think both partners got a good deal.[/quote]

Interesting. I personally am in a happy marriage and lots of people I know also are. I’m talking about people married 30 years and more, so marriages that have held up for the long haul. I would add that most of my classmates from college are married for many years now, with very few divorces. 
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Oh I know plenty of "happily" married people. But none of those marriages have TWO people who I, personally, think would make a good partner.  [/quote]

But what matters is what the two people who are in a marriage think makes a good partner, not what you personally think. 
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Sure.  So the question isn't, how can I snag a high-quality partner?  It's, how can I be oblivious to my or my partner's faults?  Lol.[/quote]

You appear to be very cynical.  I can understand why you have attracted such an unpleasant group of friends. 
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And you're probably one of the emasculating nagging sexless harpies who thinks she has a happy marriage.[/quote]

Haha, you couldn’t be more wrong. It is interesting that you find it difficult to believe that there are people who have happy marriages with plenty of physical intimacy.

And your cynical response shows even more fully what kind of a person you are and why you attract the friends you do. Do the people you are friends with have any idea how low your opinions of them are?

Kind and happy people attract kind and happy friends. And those people tend to have good marriages, unlike people who are critical and fault-finding of the people around them. [/quote]

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