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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Widowed man and I'm looking for her now.  Have been on about 15 dates.  Didn't want any second dates so far.  It's a lot of effort.

Fit, financially secure, likes to stay in and let me cook us a meal then watch a movie as much as dress up and go out dancing, or maybe a hike in the woods.  No ex baggage at all-none.  Grown kids who don't live with her.  Not allergic to cats.  Adventurous and expects the same in me.  Willing to try new things.  Bonus if she has a nice a$$.[/quote]

Let me guess. You’re 60 and she should be under 45.[/quote]You're close.  You say that like it's a bad thing.[/quote]

It’s uneven. Men die earlier typically. People like this don’t want to be known for their money but what else are they actually bringing to the table [/quote]

Exactly. So let’s see: second marriage, maybe they don’t combine finances because if existing kids. She gets what, ten years if companionship before he’s an old man and then she’s still active while he needs caretaking. Then he dies and she is not only alone with no one to take care of her, but also no money to replace someone taking care of her because it all goes to his kids.[/quote]Last wife was 13 years younger than me.  I ended up being her caretaker to the end, same as my wife before her who was 5 years younger than me.  F cancer.  My kids are doing well and certainly don't need my money when I'm gone.  I can still run circles around most men 15 years younger than me and I'm in great health.  But thanks for your projections.  Life isn't always so predictable.  [/quote]

It you are so well off, healthy and took care of 2 wives, why do you look for a “financially secure” woman? You should be able to support a third wife no prob.  [/quote]

I don't think the pp is the same person who said they're looking for a financially secure woman. He's just saying how life is unpredictable and in his case he's outlived two younger wives.

I'm sorry PP. That's a hard hand you've been dealt with. F cancer indeed. [/quote]Thank you and I am the same PP. My mentioning financially secure seems to have set some woman off and I don't get it.  I'm also done explaining it. It's not complicated.[/quote]

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