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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] She has no job so it doesn't matter who he "leaves the other house to". If there's a mortgage on it, he's leaving it to the bank since OP has no income with which to pay the mortgage.[/quote] She does work part time and he is wealthy enough to own two homes. Perhaps there will be a mortgage on it if he kicks the buckets but I was it’s underwater she can sell and at least regain equity/down payment. She has not filed for child support from and I suggest she looks into it . He is responsible for that at least I’d they split or he leaves her. The bigger issue is living with someone for years, having a child with them, and [b]keeping her from pursuing other Other options [/b]without putting into place any plans for her well being or the child they share. Legally she doesn’t have much of a right; morally he should provide something for her and their child in case of his death. We do not know if she is the default parent; chose to go part time etc, or what arrangements if any they discussed ahead of time. This is why marriage, as outdated as it may seem to some, is an important protection. Op how much does he make vs you? [/quote] This is where you and I differ. Unless he is keeping her chained to the radiator, she is doing it willingly. Nobody is keeping her from anything. This is a choice she made. Yes it was a foolish choice but a choice she made nevertheless with full understanding of pros and cons that by all accounts she should have been aware of by the ripe age of 43. She's hardly a doe-eyed 19-year old who doesn't understand how life works. Her legal rights are child support and the freedom to leave tomorrow if she wishes. [/quote]
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