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[quote=Anonymous]OP it sounds like you projected your own ideas of childhood onto your child, instead of listening to him and what he wanted growing up. Look, my parents were majorly imperfect. They screwed up in many, many, MANY ways. As an adult I understand that nothing they did was malicious, and they didn't know any better. They were broken and had their own horrible childhood trauma that they had not dealt with. They were just human. But OP, hopefully you can be mature enough to acknowledge and own your errors. Your adult son is much more likely to understand your humanity as a parent, if you accept and own your mistakes. You and your DH are the ones who chose to bring your kids into this world, and you owe them at least some acknowledgement. They, and you, can have a better chance at healing. [/quote]
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