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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I only speak English but DH and most his family are bilingual. At gatherings, if a few people are commenting back and forth in their language my MIL always makes a point to give a little translation like “they are fighting about the game again” and often will give a pointed look at which point her sons usually switch to English. I don’t mind not knowing but it’s clear that she finds it rude and I do notice and appreciate her efforts to include me.

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I think if 2 adults in a group of adults are speaking a different language to each other it’s rude. I think of one of the adults turns and addresses his or her child in a different language , it’s not rude. Seems different. The child isn’t part of the conversation and no one is being excluded. A parent making an aside to his or her child is assumed to be more private - in fact I’d consider it rude if I made a quiet aside to my child and then someone else interjected or commented. Like, I’m addressing my child not you. [/quote]

That makes sense to me. And a short aside would not seem strange or rude to me at all, especially if one of the speakers is a child. I think it would be uncomfortable if mom and daughter were having long one on one convos the whole play date that excluded the other child but that would be weird in English, too. [/quote]

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