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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm convinced by most of these comments and on other discussion threads that the majority of women on DCUM don't like their husbands or maybe just men in general. They don't want to have sex with them, don't want to ever wear lingerie. Then they come complain about their husbands possibly having affairs, and want huge alimony payouts when they divorce. It's all so...weird. Like, what's the point of even being married if you can't have fun with your spouse?[/quote]

It's a relationship board, meaning people come on here usually when they are having issues. I found this board on a Google search when I was having similar problems, the first few years of my marriage work rate and I wasn't on something like this. Now I am one of those people in a growingly hostile, sexless marriage and probably will be back here talking about affairs as well.

It's self selection [/quote]

This board is toxic brain poison. It's all about ending marriages. Why don't you find a source that discusses improving marriages?[/quote]

Even the ones focused on improving marriages (John Gottman, Samantha Rodman), tend to lean toward saying that men need to do better.  The only way you are going to find something telling women to wear more lingerie is to read Dr Laura.[/quote]

Maybe if all the experts say men need to do better….then men need to do better? [/quote]

But not all say that. The biggest issue is that most men have a list of about 3-4 things that they need to be happy. Womens lists have about 100 things on it and they can't understand why men won't help them complete the lists[/quote]

I would say that most women have one thing on their list for their husbands:

- Have your own goals for yourself, your family, your home, and your career, tell your spouse what they are, and take some initiative in accomplishing them.

Most men do these things before they are married, then somehow give them up and hand everything over to their wives.  If a man isn’t taking the lead in any other part of marital life, the idea of DW also being the person to initiate things in the bedroom by wearing sexy lingerie is not appealing.

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Lol. My list for my husband is a lot longer than that. [/quote]

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