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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t think it’s reasonable to generalize about the SAH decision. In my larger circle alone I have examples of each of the below I can point to:

- SAH mutually agreed upon and supported by both spouses, WOH closely involved 
- ineffective SAH who quit against wishes of WOH who does a lot at home, deep resentment by WOH
- SAH mutually agreed upon but WOH has become controlling jerk, SAH hides spending and has to ask for money
- SAH who quit with mutual support, years later WOH is rewriting narrative as SAH was unilateral and unwanted 
- Reluctant SAH forced into that position by being traveling spouse who is appreciative 
- SAH who refused to go back to work after kids were in school despite earlier agreement 
- SAH of SN kid where there is disagreement on how to handle SN kid 
- SAH where WOH is so checked out he doesn’t know what grade his kids are in
- SAH who is totally alcoholic and non-functioning, WOH hires nannies and scrambles all the time
- SAH who quit with mutual support, WOH has uncontrolled rage issues and SAH won’t leave kids alone with WOH

All married though I suspect a few will eventually fail. [/quote]

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