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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Moreover, this man is near the edge of spousal abandonment (likely, due to the wife being sick and not capable in bed for a while). And OP is preying on a vulnerable family situation just when they need to stick together, and the wife needs most support! She's been trying to pull the blanket from his wife and kids, and also complains about it!

There are women that are so incredibly selfish it amazes me.[/quote]

Yep. And it’s weird that OP can’t figure this out for herself but wants to be able to label the BF as “bad” or “boundary crossing.” Dating with kids and exes is always going to be complicated and there are a million different ways to handle this. At one point I had a separated BF who spent weeks intensely helping his ex finish her dissertation - because they were in similar fields, and she had put aside her dissertation while raising their child. Then they separated and she needed to go on the job market ASAP. I thought that was really cool and never for a second worried about it. They had probably had a long-standing intellectual engagement in her research, and it was right for him to support her career that way. It showed he is a very loyal and reliable person (and he showed that to me too.) [/quote]

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