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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you never responded to this question and it’s a crucial info. Are they actually officially divorced or “separated” ? Did you check if a divorce decree was filed in court records along with the property division settlement agreement ?[/quote]

Op: sorry for the delayed response. The paperwork has been submitted, but the court hasn’t finalized yet. Does this change things though?[/quote]

I am an ex wife who said the ex in your case is too enmeshed. I actually don’t see anything wrong with papers not finalized. It’s a lot of paperwork, and our relationship with ex wasn’t always amicable so it took me a few years to finalize. I didn’t date but I also wasn’t in any way attracted to my ex. 
So, per se it’s nothing. It’s her behavior that’s suss. [/quote]

OP: yes, this. They are definitely not together and haven't been for a long time; they've been living separately and have a custody schedule. I don't have any concerns about them getting back together and I don't believe that either of them want to. My concern is only over whether this signals poor boundaries and/or bad judgement on his part, and whether I want to be in a relationship with someone who goes on vacation with his ex, even if it's just a one-time thing.[/quote]

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