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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have not read every page of this thread but OP should realize that most men earning over $300,000 flat out never hit the official dating market.  These men work hard day in and day out to earn the $300,000 and frequently will date women from work connections or the social circle they are already in.

Men earning this kind of money are typically not on dating websites.

When was the last time you came across a surgeon on a dating website?  They date women from work.[/quote]

Actually, that's not true.  I work in the finance world, and some of those guys are on the dating websites precisely because they work hard day in and day out.  Most of their friends from college and grad schools are married with little children, so there goes the social life, and besides they are too busy anyway.   Dating people from work connections is not a good idea these days.[/quote]

So they are looking for early 40’s women? I doubt what OP lays out in terms of wealth would impress anyone who is successful in finance. [/quote]

So in your view men would be only looking for a young body which can produce kids? They cannot be looking for an equal partner of same age or slightly younger, with whom they are on the same stage of life, would have similar lifestyle, lots of common topics for discussion?  
It's highly taxing for many men to be a sole provider to a young family, especially when the wife is younger and likely makes "out of college" salary.  It depletes their savings, there might be a need to still repay her student loans, or finance her education.

Many 40+ men already have kids and not necessarily look to continue brooding. There is also a trend among younger couples to be childless to enjoy life while young. [/quote]

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