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Ah, but I do work outside the home in an office job. I am on maternity leave for a year. I do not expect anyone on my staff to do their job while also cleaning the office— we have a cleaning staff. It would be ridiculous for me to say that everyone should do their work AND vacuum the offices AND clean the bathrooms. It is much more than “keeping your workspace tidy” which is also true of a parent at home with their child. Imagine going to a job interview and being told you would run the $5M program oh and by the way you will also wash the windows and clean the toilets. I wouldn’t take that job professionally I’m certainly not going to take it personally. [/quote]

YOU are so OVER DRAMATIC.  You don't vacuum, mop, clean toilets or do laundry every single day. Even without children those are activities you have to do as a normal adult but somehow giving birth renders you incapable to doing them ever again?  Tip - it all doesn't have to be done on the same day. Have you ever washed your house windows? No one here is suggesting you watch your kids and also be the mechanic to your family cars and single handedly re shingle your roof. [/quote]

DP.

If they are activities that a normal adult has to do, then OP should be doing them, or atleast half of them. I bet they won't need a house keeper if he did his half. [/quote]

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