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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp again. My point was that every couple has differences in opinion about some spending or priorities whether it is house or vacations or whatever.

I know for me 1 vacation per year would be a dealbreaker. Maybe it is a dealbreaker for OP that his future wife wanted to be a SAHM.[/quote]

You can’t base relationship decisions on number of vacations per year.[/quote]

I have been married for 15 years. We go on 10 vacations per year - some small and some large. Dh doesn’t join us for all of them. He probably goes on 3-4 weeklong and then a handful of long weekends with us.

I once dated a guy who didn’t like to travel. He didn’t enjoy it and that was a dealbreaker for me. You can’t tell another person what is a dealbreaker for them.[/quote]

You’re beyond tone deaf. You’re beyond privileged. Most families can’t afford 10 vacations a year or even have the ability to the time to go on one. Your advice is entitled and privileged and not realistic for most people.

I’m glad you chose a guy to love based on how many times you go on vacation a year. Most people care about real things. [/quote]

Poster should get a job and do something productive for society.[/quote]

I don’t know OP or OP’s ex. I don’t know if OP dodged a bullet or if he lost the love of his life over a miscommunication.

I have a young daughter. I have no idea what she will be like at age 30 but what OP’s ex wants doesn’t seem unreasonable to me. We could easily pay for the wedding and the entire $2m house for them though. I don’t know the family financial situation of OP’s ex or if that even matters.

Many couples do disagree about money. Thankfully Dh and I have always been on the same page and his income or my income was always shared and our money. It may have been easier for us since both of us didn’t have money. I’m not sure how he would have been if I met him when he was already earning a seven figure income. He has always been overly generous with me. I am not very materialistic. I do love to travel. I’m glad we were able to travel a lot before we were married and had kids and now with our family.[/quote]

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