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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp again. My point was that every couple has differences in opinion about some spending or priorities whether it is house or vacations or whatever.

I know for me 1 vacation per year would be a dealbreaker. Maybe it is a dealbreaker for OP that his future wife wanted to be a SAHM.[/quote]

You can’t base relationship decisions on number of vacations per year.[/quote]

I have been married for 15 years. We go on 10 vacations per year - some small and some large. Dh doesn’t join us for all of them. He probably goes on 3-4 weeklong and then a handful of long weekends with us.

I once dated a guy who didn’t like to travel. He didn’t enjoy it and that was a dealbreaker for me. You can’t tell another person what is a dealbreaker for them.[/quote]

You’re beyond tone deaf. You’re beyond privileged. Most families can’t afford 10 vacations a year or even have the ability to the time to go on one. Your advice is entitled and privileged and not realistic for most people.

I’m glad you chose a guy to love based on how many times you go on vacation a year. Most people care about real things. [/quote]

We grew into our lifestyle. When I was in my 20s, travel was a high priority for me and a passion for me. I made more than Dh when we got married. I understand that travel is not a priority for all but it was for me.

If I was dating Dh and told him I wanted him to support me and I didn’t want to work and travel all the time with our kids, I am sure he probably would have been turned off. I vaguely remember saying or at least daydreaming that I wanted to take my future kids to travel around the world so they could experience culture and history. [/quote]

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