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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp again. My point was that every couple has differences in opinion about some spending or priorities whether it is house or vacations or whatever. I know for me 1 vacation per year would be a dealbreaker. Maybe it is a dealbreaker for OP that his future wife wanted to be a SAHM.[/quote] You can’t base relationship decisions on number of vacations per year.[/quote] I have been married for 15 years. We go on 10 vacations per year - some small and some large. Dh doesn’t join us for all of them. He probably goes on 3-4 weeklong and then a handful of long weekends with us. I once dated a guy who didn’t like to travel. He didn’t enjoy it and that was a dealbreaker for me. You can’t tell another person what is a dealbreaker for them.[/quote] You’re beyond tone deaf. You’re beyond privileged. Most families can’t afford 10 vacations a year or even have the ability to the time to go on one. Your advice is entitled and privileged and not realistic for most people. I’m glad you chose a guy to love based on how many times you go on vacation a year. Most people care about real things. [/quote]
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