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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really don’t see how you can make a case that the AP woman (assuming she is not married herself) is as equally at fault as the cheater since she made no vows of fidelity. Fwiw I have no problem with women or men who play the AP role and place 100% of the blame on the individual who broke his/her vows. You can’t force someone to cheat. [/quote]

THIS^[/quote]

Who cares if you fault her or not?  You can 100% blame your spouse and still think the AP is a complete POS, trash person.  The whole trajectory of this thread is ridiculous.

Even if a wife divorces her cheating husband and holds him 100% to blame, do you really think she's going to be besties with the OW or do you think she is going to think the OW was a piece of worthless dog crap/trash human?

How would you feel about a person that was secretly plotting your demise without your knowledge?  I'm guessing you wouldn't think very highly of them either.[/quote]

+100
I didn't say that I would hold the AP in high esteem, but I would look at her more as an enabler than deserving of equal blame.  Sure, she should not engage in a relationship with a married man, but at the same time, the ultimate responsibility lies with the man to not engage, as he alone is the one who made vows to another person.  [/quote]

Again: WHO CARES? Does it make an OW/OM feel better if people think this about them?  That they had no responsibility?  Just offered their hole?

Fault? Really?

They are both pieces of crap.  I don’t think a person whose world has just been turned upside down without warning and has to explain the upheaval to their kids is really spending the time divvying out percentage “responsibility points”.[/quote][/quote]

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