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Reply to "I was so naive re marriage, career and kids "
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[quote=Anonymous]I used to work 60-80 hours per week and Dh used to work 80 when we had our first child. Thankfully my mom was able to watch the baby and was like a second mother to him. I used to earn more than Dh when we got married. I was very ambitious and my career meant everything to me. I ended up switching to a 40 hr week job and then had a second child. After second was born, I started doing consulting work and then got a PT job. Now I’m a sahm of 3 kids. You need to outsource more and/or let your Dh handle more. Dh earns a seven figure income so we don’t need my income. I sometimes am resentful that he never had to cut down and get daddy tracked. He kept moving up while I kept working less until now I don’t work at all. I know it was my choice to have 3 kids. I am the one who wanted the third child. I think the third tipped us over. It is very hard juggling the 3 kids on my own when they attend 3 different schools.[/quote]
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