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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe he needs to pick up a few things from their apartment? Maybe they’re out of town part of week or a single parent who can only meet up every few weeks. Who knows. [b]But he cares enough about them to not break up over text.[/b]  It sounds to me like he was dating more than you understood. Which isn’t terrible but could be rattling. I’d give him the time but also ask him in a non confrontational way about his relationships after those few weeks and wrap ups are complete. I like hearing about past partners and the more he tells you the less unknown/wild fable it is. Plus if he chooses to remain friends (actual friends) with any of them clearing the air will help. [/quote]

Sweet baby Jes***, there are options other than text or in-person.  He can call on the phone.  He can have a video call.  I can’t even imagine if I told my now DH I needed 1-2 weeks to set up meetings in person with guys I started dating six weeks after I started dating him for relationships that allegedly weren’t serious in order for us to be in an exclusive relationship. I don’t think it was even a process to be exclusive, I simply stopped going on dates with other people and didn’t respond to any new online matches - that can happen right away.  I took down my profiles that day.  Anyone that warranted more than simply not making any upcoming plans only needed a phone call as to why the plans we were talking about (was it really more than a few days in advance) were not going to happen.[/quote]

OP could be the side chick that’s moved to first place. [/quote]

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