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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All of you are going in on the guy...but what about op doesn't sound like she's all that into him either.

She was perfectly fine with things as they were until her friends told her she should be doing something else. And instead of being mature enough to tell them to myob she'd looking for ways to make the guy out to be awful and taking advantage of her.

Immaturity all around.[/quote]

An awful lot of people here seem to agree that the guy is up to no good. This isn't because of the talk with her friends. An immature person would ignore all the obvious signs and input from friends and insist it's love and nobody understands how special and different this guy is. And then end up with a broken heart down the line.[/quote]

I haven't done a count, and you couldn't anyway since one person can post lots of times, but court me as someone on team guy-- I do think he is being punished for being transparent but if OP wants to blow up their relationship over this I'd say that's bullet dodged.

For everyone who wishes they had "listened to their gut" and broke up sooner there is someone else who could have a successful longterm relationship if they hadn't cut and run at the first hint of difficulty (or not even difficulty, just a recognition the other person is also fully grown person who has been and continues to live in the world outside your orbit)[/quote]

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