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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have advised my single  DD (early 20s) to build her career and education first and also pay attention to grooming and fitness. The truth is that after college or grad school, it is very hard to meet people who are your age and similar in SES and education to you.

If you are out of that stage then you need to have a plan. Just like the AA poster did.  Do the meetups, show up for stuff, connect with your friends and professional contacts. Finally, here is the advice I gave to my DD - freeze your eggs at some point...so that you are not desperate and can actually have your kids as a successful single woman. My DD knows that when she turns 25, I will also start looking for "suitable boys" for her and she will have to at least meet them once. Arranged marriages are common in our culture but I won't expect my DD to accept that completely. She can continue to date etc, but she knows that her parents will also be looking at prospective grooms and they will be in the mix of people she will date.   I don't expect her to marry before 28 and I certainly don't think she should have kids until she is in her 30s even if she is married. But without a plan she will just flounder around. I see too many people going via Tinder, Bumble, Match.com, shaadi.com etc.  So frankly, mom and dad also looking for good matches is not terrible idea. [/quote]

This isn’t great advice for a 30+ Basic white woman.

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