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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some of you are insane. First of all, no, not wanting to date a bisexual man isn't "biphobic" and you're all acting like right-wing trolls. "I GUESS THAT MAKES ME BIPHOBIC." Literally no one said that. If you're not attracted to them, don't date them. I'm not attracted to Asian men so I don't date Asian men. That's not racist, that's just a preference. Literally no one said you were biphobic other than maybe a Jacobin writer so stop playing the martyr.

Second of all, while, yes, a lot of gay and bisexual people are more, uh, kinky, I don't think that's true of all of them. Dating a bisexual doesn't automatically equate to "you need to be in an open relationship and have nightly MMF threesomes." Wtf. [/quote]

How does a woman even know the guy is bisexual unless he tells her.

I'm a bisexual male, an unless I choose to tell people, they wouldn't know.[/quote]

I think this is one reason many people would be reluctant to date someone they knew in advance was bisexual. If someone is very vocal about being bi, presumably it's a pretty big aspect of their identity, and that might mean that relationships with multiple genders are important to them. Whereas some people are just low key bi in that they don't limit their sexual options to one gender, but it's not like they are super invested in being seen as bi by other people. I know a decent number of bi women who are like this, and more than a few wound up marrying straight men and their bisexuality is kind of theoretical because they have no plans to ever have sex with a woman in the future. But the point is that they are attracted to women sometimes in addition to being attracted to men. It's not a big deal.

Some of the people saying they wouldn't date a bi guy probably already have and just don't know. A lot of people are not vocal about it.[/quote]

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