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I think a lot of people are reacting to how you judge this woman you don't even know for one sin, dismissing her as "the side piece", when for all you know, she could be a far better human being than any of you.

Sure, you did not cheat on your husband. But you're very far from perfect, OP, and here you are showing a very petty and punitive side of yourself. Under pretext of "being on your ex-SIL's side" - which is meaningless, because a good person would be able to support her without creating all this drama - you appear to take pleasure in needling your brother, and calling his girlfriend names, and really prolonging the pain of the betrayal and separation. It's as if you WANT everyone to suffer as much as possible, by keeping them in that holding pattern forever. You are also making your ex-SIL and her children suffer, by not moving on diplomatically.

You are on no one's side. You just like the attention you're getting as moral arbiter. Please get down from your fake pedestal and start acting humanely.

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100% all of this.  From someone who has first-hand knowledge of a family and marriage breaking up, it's not about you. you are not helping. just stop. And I would not want my sil doing this " on my behalf"  Call me . Meetu up for coffe or lunch, come visit the kids etc, but don't engage in petty stuff tha will make my life more difficult.
The last thing I need is an ex blaming me for trying to alienate him and the kids from the family,  how do you think that will play out for me?[/quote]

The kids are grown and cut him off on their own. That should tell you something.[/quote]

It doesn’t matter. He is not your dad, he’s your brother.

Time for you to get over it. [/quote]

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