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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, absolutely ok to not invite this woman to your home for holidays. Your brother can turn down the invitation or accept it for himself.

I would suggest that you have open arms for your nieces and nephews and also be cordial to ex-SIL.  I did the same with mine and my brother went ahead and married the AP. After 5 years, she dumped him. He is back as a single guy in our lives. We kept the niece and nephew in our life and also remained friendly with ex-SIL. Of course, my ex-SIL will never ever get together with my loser brother again, but, we have been able to smooth out the relationship between my brother and his kids to some extent.

Be consistent.  [b]Remain in the side of the righteous.[/b]  The kids are watching and they will keep in touch with the relatives if they don't think that the relatives screwed their mom and sided with their adulturous dad. [/quote]

You can be righteous, or you can be compassionate and loving. Not both. The former is so toxic for you. (Please tell me you're not a Christian.)[/quote]

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