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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So if his penis was in another hole, you’d be okay with him coming home and putting it in your hole? That’s kind of the base level question here. [/quote]

Shower first, please.[/quote]

By then the bacterial/viral infection has already set in.  You can’t wash off hiv or chlamydia.[/quote]

There is such a thing called condom.[/quote]

Guys don't always use condoms with APs, especially if they think she can't get pregnant.

Also, condoms, don't prevent all STIs.[/quote]You don't have to drag down EVERY FRICKIN POST about sexual relations by bringing up STIs.  We are adults.  We know about it.  We also know how to have sex without catching cooties.  I presume you did too when you were single and riding a bunch of Ds?  Seriously, can you just stop?[/quote]

People in affairs and/or cheating are risk-takers by nature.  In my practice, we see so many betrayed spouses with STIs.  [/quote]

I would still argue that on average, a married person is less likely to have multiple sex partners or carry STI comparing to a single person with the same level of attractiveness.

Sure, a highly attractive married person (like a celebrity or a CEO) may be more promiscuous than a 25-yo single unattractive nerd. But if you compare a single 25-yo average man to a married 45-yo average man, or a single 25-yo above-average looking woman to a married 45-yo above-average looking woman, I'd bet my money on the former being more promiscuous and having more chance of carrying STIs. The latter (the married ones) have too much constraints - kids, careers, the efforts of hiding the affairs - that makes it a lot more difficult (but not impossible) to have multiple partners.

Of course there are the sex addicted cheaters that are banging multiple people at the same time - I bet they did the same when they were single too. But for most married people that are having affairs, they are just looking for sex, attention, and external validation, and they would just be thrilled to have - and practically possible to maintain - one AP at a time.[/quote]Didn't you get the DCUM memo? ALL married cheaters are promiscuous, dirty, disease riddled, hos that jump from person to person, spreading it around like wildfire while they never practice safe sex and they are all having 3x week sex with their spouse who is also banging a number of side pieces.  Pay attention!

To be certain, I'm a LOT less worried about a married woman than a sexually active, single woman.[/quote]

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