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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ oh and as much as theoretically you think you are laid back, would be okay with it.  Reality is much different than what you think.  I can guarantee the emotions and horror will be night and day if you are blindsided.  It’s nothing like the movies or sitting around with girlfriends saying “who cares”.  It’s traumatizing.[/quote]

I wasn't traumatized when I found out but admittedly, my spouse and I rarely have sex. I would probably have been much more disappointed if we had a passionate marriage.

I think you and the others who talk about severe trauma have to remember is a huge percentage of marriages are either sexless or only occasional maintenance sex reluctantly given by a spouse who would rather watch TV. They stay together for stability and for the kids and finances. Cheating is something you don't want to have to deal with but it's not a betrayal of the heart because that ship sailed.

Also remember that half of people have cheated so it's not that strange to find out it happened to you.

I am sorry for the pain you went through.[/quote]

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