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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH's limerent affair has all but destroyed me.

What do you want to know in particular about his EA? How much it hurts to see the one you love foreclose our future and the future of our children for a person he's obsessively texted this past year?

How he can't stop, won't stop thinking of her?

How she promises him an escape from the doldrums of marriage and confidently previews a future full of fun, jokes, sexual chemistry, and genuine friendship?

How he's intent on exploring an alternate future he could have with her -- a beloved friend from his teenage years-- versus the woman who has [b]been nothing but loyal and supportive these past 16 yrs?[/b]

How he desperately wants to protect her from the men who have hurt her, yet at the very same time, is hurting me and causing trauma in my life?

[b]Do you want to know what it's like to witness two months of double grief -- to see a man grieve the pain he caused his wife, yet at the very same time grieve over his EA  and not wanting to get rid of her forever?[/b] [/quote]

Like a dog. Maybe he wants more than that.[/quote]

To PP who wrote the bolded:  why are you still with this D bag?  He thinks he’s noble protecting some other woman from “men who hurt her” while harming his own wife and kids - and you are letting this drag on for months.  Why??  Why are you letting this man that you have been loyal to for 16 years make a humiliating mockery out of you and your marriage.  And don’t say it’s for the sake of the kids, because this is a terrible dynamic for the kids to see.  A doormat mom, d bag dad and manipulative puppet master AP controlling the entire sh*tshow.  [/quote]

War of attrition. If she leaves she loses him anyway. If she stays it’s his move and she may lose him anyway. If she stays though he may eventually come to his senses and PP, if he chooses to leave there is no shame in having tried to save your family. Do not listen to the above poster.[/quote]

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