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[quote=Anonymous]Make a list of all the house/kid stuff and have him select the half of the tasks that he will do. (Be sure to divide it into daily, weekly, occasional so he can't take all the occasional tasks like weeding and making drs appts and leave you with dishes and laundry and cleaning). My suspicion is that he will balk at this. If he says no, then tell him you aren't going to go back because you can't handle everything yourself while working full-time. If he says ok, then go back to work, but make sure he is handling all his tasks himself. If he is in charge of dishes, and he doesn't do them, they pile up in the sink. If he is in charge of trash, and he doesn't take out the trash, then you have overflowing trash. He will either step up or realize that things are better with you at home. This is the only way.[/quote]
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