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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Prior to my long term relationship that I’m in now, I have always done very well approaching women and I’ve been pretty direct about it, could care less what the women in this thread say because it has worked for me amazingly and have been fortunate to have great memories with women over the years (not just sex, I genuinely enjoyed dating and “the hunt” when I was single, as well as getting to know people / learning about them, sex too though let’s be real)

“Girl with the blonde hair, I was actually just on my way to the grocery story, but I saw you and I thought you were adorable with your (something she’s wearing) and I had to come risk it all” or something along those lines say it in a confident but kind of joking or funny way like you aren’t taking the situation too seriously or that you know there is some comedy inherently involved in Hitting on a random girl in the street. Then quickly change subject to asking her name and introducing yourself, then transition to normal conversation about your day, what she’s up to, the city, whatever just normal conversation. If she thinks you’re hot and you have a good vibe she will stay and chat and you can ask for her number. If she doesn’t you should be able to take the hint and leave her alone. Every time I would move to a new city, it took me all of a day to start going on dates with pretty girls by doing this.[/quote]

You sound insane.[/quote]
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He sounds quite sane.  He sounds like 87% of red blooded men sounded [b]in the happy 1950s[/b] before three generations of toxic feminism and intersectional claptrap gelded most of the men.

You don't want to be approached...great.  There are ways of communicating that.

The toxic princess on a pea thing ... "don't any of you dare approach me, I'll be so so offended" ... go take a walk and cool your head.

You sound angry at the world and quite a bit insane yourself.[/quote]

Yea the 1950s weren’t so happy for women. My grandmothers, and most of the women I know who lived during the 50s, were anxious messes due to how they were treated by men. Feminism has greatly improved the lives of women.

Not sure why you believe men’s happiness should come at the expense of women. If your happiness is really and truly dependent on being entitled to talk to any woman you want at any moment, you need therapy. All anyone is asking for is a little tact and a little self-control.

Most of the women here are saying they are fine with appropriate conversations in appropriate settings. There’s a very simple rule of thumb you can follow. If you would strike up a conversation with a man in the same setting, or if you would be fine with a man striking up a conversation with you, it is probably okay.

My guess is that you would NOT ever pull over to talk to a man. And you’d probably NOT like it if a man pulled over while you were walking down the sidewalk to tell you that you’re adorable and ask you out. You’d probably be uncomfortable. Maybe once would be amusing, but you’d probably grow to resent it if this happened to you day and after day.

If you want to blame someone, blame fellow men. I’ve had so many negative experiences with men trying to chat me up and behaving inappropriately, and that’s why I don’t want to be approached anymore. When I know there’s a 90+% chance the guy is a total creep, I want to be left alone. Instead of declaring women MUST tolerate this because 1 out of 10 might be a decent guy, start holding men accountable and push them to do better.

(And yes, at least 90% of the men who hit on me in public are complete and total creeps. Happy to share some horror stories with you so you can see what women deal with). [/quote]

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