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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to just drop this guy. Who gives a crap about the rate of divorce amongst arranged marriages. You're not someone who will ever be accepted here and the train is off and rolling for him, fulfilling his familial duty. If this guy were going to buck convention he would have done that. He's not going to, so move on. [/quote]
I am aware of this. I was just providing an end to the story.[/quote]
Except it’s not the end of the story because you are continuing to live in a state of denial with all these proclamations of how things must have gone. You still want to believe that he was telling you the truth all along. You need to accept that this guy’s family wasn’t controlling him. He knew the path he would take and intended to have a little side fun while he got there. You need to accept that he’s been lying to you from the start and there was never going to be a long-term commitment from him.

His new was also someone he most likely has been dating while he was seeing you. The whole arranged marriage topic was just another part of his lies to you.[/quote]

It’s called closure. OP is permitted some time to allow her mind to close this chapter and make sense of the little time she invested.[/quote]
Closure is not living in a state of denial and making up what has been going on is the fault of his family and not the guy. Closure is she now knows he is married and that chapter of her life has been slammed shut.[/quote]

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