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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think its really awesome to run into you OP, and the other women here like you/us.

Its funny to watch people to get all twisted up in outrage when women who have been told "no one will want you or your brat kids" or, "you'll be traded in for a younger model" forever on this board flip the script.

Folks, not only are women like this around, but there are plenty of us. We have had our kids, we have our own money, and as a bunch, statistics show we have much richer community/friend relationships and hobbies than our married female counterparts, or our single male counterparts. Thanks to my every other weekend ex, I have tons of time to learn grow and explore, and I use it well. I'm not lonely as I have primary custody of three teens, they are fun and funny and we are a great team.

We can afford to be selective and make our dating pool small, because we don't need you anymore, men. If one of you comes along who can make our world better, great! Lets go. I cannot wait to find a man who can bring like or similar things to the table as I can. I know they exist and I know they are rare, and there is no alternative for me but to wait as I wont settle again.

Women like us have been given choices, and with those choices more and more women are choosing to enjoy their rich full lives and their disposable income WITHOUT a man, rather than to take whatever sad sack man offered himself up to us in middle age.

Choices are empowering. [/quote]

Slow clap.

So when you do get married again, are you going to add "this time, for real" to your vows?[/quote]

This is so rude. I was unsure of marriage. I did not want to go through with it. I did anyway. There were no vows.[/quote]

You said vows of lifelong fidelity and companionship and family you didn't mean to another human being, and I'M rude? GTFO.

"There were no vows?" Yes, actually, there were, even if it was just courthouse legalese. You are trash. [/quote]

WOW. You are crazy. Many, many people are pressured into getting married. You must have have been raised traditionally. Many of these bad marriages last and you think there is some award for it. Unbelievable. Marriage is always a risk. It is not 100% whether there are vows said or not. Many people get to an age where they feel like they "should" or everyone says they "should"--especially for women. You are out of touch with how a lot of women are raised. [/quote]

PP seems to have a screw loose.  You can’t rationalize with a crazy person, so don’t even bother.  The people who are trash are those who judge others.  I can’t imagine being in a marriage, even a great one, where you feel like you are stuck forever no matter what happens is a good feeling.  I have no intention of getting divorced, but I breathe easier knowing if DH suddenly turned into an a super/alcoholic/cheater, I wouldn’t be stuck.  These things happen every day to people who think they’ll never happen to them.  Just read these boards and you’ll see such stories![/quote]

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