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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]pp. You just called another human trash for being divorced.

My ex husband was a football player. I married him 20 years ago before we knew about CTE. He started to drink, rage and threaten me physically after abusing me emotionally and financially for years.

I said my vows, I meant my vows, and I received an abusive partner who was sick, but sick in ways that the world cant see until after death. I divorced to protect my children and have primary custody.I wrote the above about choices being empowering. I dont care if you think I'm trash. I was handed a hard thing and I made the best of it, with my kids as my priority 100% of the way. [/quote]

Nope! I called her trash for knowingly making vows to another person that she knew, for sure, T the time that she did not mean.

Anyone who goes in with the pure intention to keep their vows but ends up divorced is just...divorces. That's fine. That's life.

But if you know you don't mean the vows and you get married anyway, knowing you are lying and likely going to ruin someone's life and tear up a family, you're trash. You are mocking the very institution.[/quote]

BTW, I intended to stay married despite being miserable. You have no idea how bad it became. I had to leave. I never intended to "ruin" someone's life. In fact, he ruined mine. He turned out to be the opposite of the preson he pretended to be. That hesitation was my inner voice knowing something was truly off...I just could not see it yet. You are a horrible person making such terrible comments when you are just making huge assumptions.[/quote]

Nope! This is what you said (if this wasn’t you, then I’m NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU):

“This is so rude. I was unsure of marriage. I did not want to go through with it. I did anyway. There were no vows.”

I did not want to go through with it; I did anyway. That is not “oh there was some nagging feeling I couldn’t quite place.” Nope, that was clear as day. I DID ANYWAY. That’s a choice, right there. Eyes open.

“There were no vows”? What the eff does THAT mean? Even if you are in a courthouse, there are vows. Whether they are simply legal, or legal and spiritual, there is no such thing as a marriage with no vows.

And if you make a vow knowing you don’t mean it, you are trash. [/quote]

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