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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD isn't "fast"
She has straight As doesn't drink
She did have a BF starting at age 14 however and began having sex with him at 15
She didn't end up pregnant or grades going down or doing drugs. 
She isn't dating him anymore or anyone (covid and not going anywhere).
But they aren't all linked. We have liberal views about sex and dating. 
But we don't about drugs or getting wasted or bad grades. So she stays in what we've created as her lane.[/quote]

You can call it whatever you want, but a child having sex at 15 is fast. That is not healthy age-appropriate behavior based on our societal norms. The fact you’ve decided that’s the lane you’re creating in your household doesn’t change that. Any parent that hears this info about your daughter, and the fact this is an acceptable norm in your household, wouldn’t want their kid anywhere near yours.[/quote]

Is this for real?  A 15 year old having sex with a same age peer she's been in a long term relationship with is very much the definition of age appropriate. Sure, we as parents would like them all to wait until 18, but did any of us wait that long by choice?[/quote]

Uh, I was barely past the "boys are gross" phase at 15. I had my first crush at around 16. My first kiss at 18. Had sex at 22. 
Do fifteen year old girls even orgasm? [/quote]

WTF, "do they even orgasm". Would you say that about 15YO boys? No, because you'd probably assume they were masturbating.

There's not something that magically happens during puberty to enable orgasm. Even little kids touch their private parts because it feels good. I didn't have sex until college, but I figured out orgasm around 12. Just because you didn't doesn't mean it's physically impossible.

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No I wouldn't say that about 15 year old boys, and not because of masturbation but simple physiology. Let's not be so woke that we pretend that the male and female orgasm are the same. The fact is that a sadly large percentage of adult women report not enjoying orgasm (for whatever reason--poor partners, not exploring their own bodies, etc), and women generally have easier and more pleasurable orgasms with time, often peaking in their forties. When so many adult women not having orgasms, it's not unreasonable to ask if children are. [/quote]

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