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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD isn't "fast"
She has straight As doesn't drink
She did have a BF starting at age 14 however and began having sex with him at 15
She didn't end up pregnant or grades going down or doing drugs. 
She isn't dating him anymore or anyone (covid and not going anywhere).
But they aren't all linked. We have liberal views about sex and dating. 
But we don't about drugs or getting wasted or bad grades. So she stays in what we've created as her lane.[/quote]

You can call it whatever you want, but a child having sex at 15 is fast. That is not healthy age-appropriate behavior based on our societal norms. The fact you’ve decided that’s the lane you’re creating in your household doesn’t change that. Any parent that hears this info about your daughter, and the fact this is an acceptable norm in your household, wouldn’t want their kid anywhere near yours.[/quote]

I'm European and this is why so many men here are married with frigid women and in sexless marriages. I had sex at 16, had 4 partners my entire life, always in loving, LTR and I've always LOVED sex. Safe sex at 15 with a loving, age appropriate partner is fine. It is not wrong or dirty. [/quote]

A lot of women have issues with sex because they had sex they didn't want to have way before they were ready. [/quote]

How can this be possible when the relationship forum is all about men who can't have sex with their wives and this thread is all about people waiting until they are 22. IMO, if you are not interested in having sex before 22, you are pretty much asexual and comfortable going without it for years. USA is also at the bottom of the sexual satisfaction surveys. The puritan American view about sex breeds unhappy relationships.  [/quote]

Why are you assuming that the men who claim to be in sexless marriages are married to women here saying that they waited? You don't know who is posting what and where.

I did have an interest in sex prior to 22. I had sex at 19. That is not 15. I was already living on my own. I've gone years without sex. I'm not asexual. I'm also not American.

So many odd assumptions. [/quote]

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