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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not divorced but is this is a normal amount? Or does this mean that the ex wife makes a lot less? Is Child support even owed if you and your Dh make similar income? [/quote] sounds like there are big expenses like childcare or tuition. [/quote] Not always.[/quote] Private school is voluntary except if both parents agree. Child care is until age 5 if the mother/parents work and then before/after school care or camp. There are affortable ways if mom's income is lower. If mom chooses a private school and dad doesn't agree, she should fully pay for it.[/quote] It’s normal to low in my NOVA circle. Ex-DH makes about $230k, I make $120k and he pays me $3000 a month. One kid, childcare is $1800 a month. I have 4-5 nights, he has 2-3 nights depending on the week and our schedules. We do make all decisions regarding our child and activities together and summer camp/medical expenses etc. are on top of CS and split 60/40 (him/me). This would be similar if we chose to pursue private school. As my attorney explained it - the money is not just for expenses but also to keep a similar lifestyle. FWIW, I declined alimony as I do not believe my ex needs to support me, but the CS enabled us to stay in the marital home which is best for our child. [/quote]
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