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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. Money. All the men I know over 40 obsess over retirement and their 401k. Divorce means they’ll have to pay child support, possibly alimony, and give up half their retirement. 2. Decreased standard of living. Better to stay in the house and have sex on the side than live in a crappy apartment. 3. Wife is the maid and handle all the house and kid stuff. Divorce means dad would have to step it up and actually take care of his kids, and the thought of a weekend alone with them is overwhelming Basically, men who have affairs usually have major entitlement issues. [/quote] #1 and #2 do not apply to most modern divorces. #1: We kept our own retirement. I worked. There was no reason to split half of his. I have my own--and it was almost equal. #2: His standard of living stayed the same. He makes more money. Again, I work. No alimony. He kept the house. I left. #3: This applies. If they want 50/50 they actually have to start doing some work.[/quote]
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