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Oh wow! I was most definitely NOT neglected! My mom (and in many ways my dad) knew me so well! Yes, they were not around all the time and they gave me a lot of freedom growing up. They knew they could trust me and they knew exactly how much I could handle. We spent weeks just the 4 of us on a sail boat or in a car/ tents while crossing the Sahara desert. We did amazing things... quality things... but yes, my mom rarely cooked for us (and she was/is nit good at it), she rarely took us to swim/fencing classes, she did not monitor how much tv I was watching or how much time I spent doing homework, but she was absolutely present. I never had issues... always did well in school, etc. my brother had a harder time in school and my mom found the best tutor to help him (he is now a very well respected surgeon. 
We always talked a lot and she knew ME. I had the best care (cleaning me, feeding me, taking me to activities) with amazing nannies/aupairs from all over the world (who taught me a lot). 
I had the best childhood full of love and adventures and so many people who loved me (including my parents)

[b]I had a friend growing up whose mom chose to stay at home. By the time he was 15, he was making fun of her and calling her “stupid” because all she did was cleaning her house and buying produce... she did a very crappy job being “present” in his life and nowadays the mom has almost zero contact with her kids... what a waste of a life if you ask me...[/b][/quote]

You know, for all the amazing things you claim to have, the bolded is one of the most staggering judgmental things I’ve ever seen posted on DCUM, and that’s saying a lot. Your friend sounds like an ungrateful jerk.  It’s unfortunate that for all your wealth and amazing experiences, you have so little ability to conceive of happy lives that don’t mirror your own, or that, maybe, just maybe, a woman staying at home to raise children deserves respect from those children, rather than denigration.[/quote]

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