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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here again.

1. She came to interview wearing slacks and a button down shirt.

2. I'm not asking her to buy anything expensive to wear to work. A t shirt and jeans would suffice.

3. You guys make it seem like she is paid pennies and that's not true. I pay her 5x-6x as much as she would make minimum wage so.. please quit it with the comments about how I don't pay her. [/quote]

Your original question was whether there was a way to ask an adult who is providing a service for you to change the way that she dresses to accommodate your personal religious beliefs which she, apparently, does not share. You’ve received a lot of feedback on that. While it’s great that you pay her well ( $75 - $90 an hour if you’re using the minimum wage in DC), and that your expectations seem reasonably easy to meet, that doesn’t really change the inappropriateness and, yes, rudeness, of what you want to do.  Since it seems to be very important to you, perhaps you should just accept your rudeness. Explain your wishes and see how she responds.

One takeaway that you might get from this is to discuss your requirements during future  interviews,  when it would be appropriate to discuss your wishes in a way that is completely unrelated to whatever the person being interviewed happens to be wearing.

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