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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Where are all these nice guys who can’t get a girl to look at them?

Off of the top of my head, I can think of five single, attractive women in their late twenties who are smart, funny, and have good jobs.  But I can’t think of anyone to set them up with.  [/quote]

This comes up more often in the teen and early 20s. How the red pill folks describe it, this is when women have the most options, are acting on attraction (rather than other motives), and are most interested in sex. The guys they pick at this period in their lives reflect what they truly find attractive in men. [/quote]

So, if a woman in her late twenties is interested in you, but you don’t think she would have been 5-10 years earlier when she had more options (based on YOUR idea of what 22 year old girls are interested in), then you conclude that she doesn’t *really* find you attractive?

This all sounds to me like you are trying to use women to prove something to yourself about what kind of man you are.  Like, “if a woman with a lot of options chooses me, then I must be good enough.*”

*(...and my mom was wrong.)

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No, it’s really more that there is reason for concern that her sexual interest is feigned, with dire prospects for the sexual future of a potential marriage.  They may, of course, be incorrect in this assessment.  But I think it is a reasonable concern in many cases.  Indeed, I often think the visceral distaste many women have for red pill ideology is not because it is wrong, but because it is correct.  YMMV, of course.

As for the late 20s friends referenced above, I’ve known a lot of single women who are  “smart” “funny” and have a “good job,” and IME they have been and stayed single because they didn’t want to be a member of any club that would have them—there might always be someone better, you know?   [/quote]

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