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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my DH becomes impotent he should expect cheating or divorce? [/quote]

I specifically used the term "physical intimacy", not "sexual intercourse".  There are plenty of ways to share physical intimacy without makin' babies.  [/quote]

But what if I want p-in-v sex? Is everyone who says it's acceptable to cheat on your wife also going to support that despite his inability to perform I'm entitled to have sex with a man who can get hard? Or simply divorce?[/quote]

That's a good question, but addresses an entirely different situation than the one I addressed.   I still stand by what I said -- which, I will point out, did not assign a gender to either party.  If one partner decides that physical intimacy of any sort is of no interest to them and makes no effort or compromise towards working on that aspect of their relationship, then they shouldn't find it suddenly important when the other partner looks elsewhere.
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So I think we agree. When a man can no longer perform p-in-v, which was a understanding of their marriage, an open marriage or a divorce is an acceptable response. [/quote]I took care of my wife who had breast cancer when we were married, until the very end.  I never met anyone who left their wife when she got breast cancer, and I've met plenty of couples who struggled with it.

Yes but if the reverse happens, the man must stay because...?[/quote]

I never said the man must stay. [b]It's pretty normal that when a woman gets breast cancer her husband will leave.[/b] I agree with those guys, if my DH was sick and became less sexy I'd be out. I'm going to get flamed, but every man on this sub agrees. It's women who are stupid enough to stick around during sickness. [/quote]

Say what? Guy here, and no one is this "pretty normal" behavior. I have never heard of a guy leaving because his wife has breast cancer. If you believe that and think it's ok, you are a seriously damaged person.[/quote][/quote]

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