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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my DH becomes impotent he should expect cheating or divorce? [/quote]

I specifically used the term "physical intimacy", not "sexual intercourse".  There are plenty of ways to share physical intimacy without makin' babies.  [/quote]

But what if I want p-in-v sex? Is everyone who says it's acceptable to cheat on your wife also going to support that despite his inability to perform I'm entitled to have sex with a man who can get hard? Or simply divorce?[/quote]

A partner who physically has certain limits but is otherwise ready/willing/able to work with you, yet the other partner INSISTS the ONE SPECIFIC definition of "sex" that their partner cannot offer.
[b]You've just created a straw man scenario that describes probably 0.00001% of sexless marriages. Well done!!
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Can you provide a citation for this stat? Despite popular belief, the existence of a vagina doesn't mean it's wet or that there's physical ability. Sex is painful when your vagina isn't into this. But of course, we understand when a man isn't physically able, but when women aren't we try to convince them to just shove it in. [/quote]

Well all of the sexless marriage scenarios on here are that a) husband is an asshole/bad partner/etc and wife (duh!) does not want sex with an a-hole   b) husband may be a fine partner but wife just does not want/need sex

In other words, the issue has nothing to do with any performance limitations.  It's all about lack of interest/willingness for reason A or B or both.[/quote]

So you have no proof of the stat you claimed [/quote]

Scroll to the top and use the "Search this forum" feature to find cases of sexless marriage. Find me a single one even close to your straw man scenario and I will concede your victory.[/quote]

You already proved me right with point B. Not wanting sex = it's painful to just "shove it in". Your inability to get that is why no one will have sex with you. If you can't get a woman wet, it means it's bad sex. No, wetness is not something we can turn on and off willingly. [/quote]

I'm not sure why you're stuck on your cis heteronormative framing of this issue.  This problem can exist with male/male and female/female partners just as well as it can with male/female.[/quote]

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