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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a SAHM married to a high earner. He's in finance and I'm a former elementary school teacher. I do think a lot of teachers want to become SAHMs. We love kids so it makes sense that we'd want to be with our own more. I do think the prenup is a problem for you though. My husband makes double your salary, we also have a net worth in the millions, but my name is on all of our accounts. There is total financial transparency and I can access everything. In addition, we talk about our financial goals together. I can and do spend money freely with no scrutiny from him. When our kids were little and more labor intensive, he had no problem with me hiring household help (cleaner and part time sitter). It works for our marriage because he goes out of his way to show that he values what I do for our family and he treats me like an equal partner. I don't think it's a good idea to quit your job if it's going to be otherwise.[/quote]
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