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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t do more work than him to fix the marriage. He broke it, he needs to be the one to fix it. [/quote]

He should be working double time.  He should be doing everything around the house and with the kids to take the burden off of you right now.  He should be finding the therapist and initiating his own healing and he should be remorseful.  He should be getting STD tested and a vasectomy and offer you a post-nuptial agreement.  It’s a risk for you to stay with someone like this so he needs to do everything possible and be as transparent as he can.[/quote]

Agree with all of this.

There is a list at 'surviving infidelity' of the no-gos from the start.  Complete transparency from here out.[/quote]

And yes like a preforming animal he'll do just what is expected until you look away. How long do you want to track this person and check up on them. They are broken and you'll spend a life time in misery. And I get many women need the other income and insurance to make it in the world. Thats a big one, but move on and don't let him know. You can stay married and do that, I've had friends that pretended to forgive when it was quite the opposite. They simply became very good poker players, and the joke was on the cheater at the end of the day. [/quote]

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