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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Until there's a conversation about exclusivity and the direction of the relationship, it's unfair to hold people to commitments that they haven't made. This conversation can occur very early on but the conversation still has to happen first. Generally speaking, even 3-4 months is still early enough that it's still casual dating and neither parties owe each other anything.

OP's girlfriend (who didn't owe him anything at that point) stopping dating the other guy so that she could pursue a serious relationship with OP. And his response to this information was to break up with her. I guess the girlfriend dodged a bullet.

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They became exclusive at some point, we don't know when. From OP's original post it sounds like that was probably right after 1-2 months (he wasn't sure if they were exclusive at that point). He wasn't going to break up with her for sleeping with the other guy at that point, even if it bothered him. It sounds like they were exclusive by 3-4 months, so yeah she kinda did owe him something at that point. Also, if the info he got was correct, it only stopped because the other guy got back with his ex; it wasn't some decision she made to be serious with OP. Don't think she was the one who dodged a bullet.[/quote]

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