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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve only read the OP so far. Not all kids are competitive at sports. If he loves his “no cut” sport and enjoys it, who the F cares whether he practices or excels. I imagine it gets his body moving, and it enables him to interact with other people. It sounds like you want him to reflect well on you, or match your competitive, driven spirit, and that’s not a fair burden to put on him. Kids bloom and evolve at different times, some later than others. He will find his own path.[/quote]
Yeah, the sport thing is just odd to me. For the vast majority of kids, playing a sport is really just a way to get exercise. I played a number of sports when I was in middle school and high school, and was generally above average. But, parents back then weren't insane about sports like they are these days. No way would they have spent thousands of dollars and blown every weekend driving two states over just so their kids could be on some travel team coached by an obsessive psycho. I'm pretty glad my kids have other interests.

So, far, I haven't seen anything on this thread to indicate that there's really anything wrong with OP's kid. A lot of posters seem to be be projecting their own insecurities on a kid whose worst sin seems to be that he's laid back. [/quote]

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