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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can pps who think demanding women means harpy, nasty, emasculating theri husbands describe their fathers? How were they as dads to you? 
And also[b] pps who are saying demanding women know what they want and there is nothing wrong with that, also maybe describe how their dads were as dads?[/b]
I am just curious if there is a correlation. We can try the same with moms. Were your moms outspoken, demanded what they wanted, or were your [b]moms demure, dad knows best, keeping the peace in the family [/b]kind of moms and wives.
I am just curious. Thanks.[/quote]

This is an interesting line of thought, so I will contribute my experience. I am one of the so called demanding women with a faithful, loving husband of 20 years. I am a Daddy's girl. My father was affectionate and loving, but also took his anger out on us kids at times. I would vacillate between adoring and fearing him. As an adult, I have an open, loving relationship with him and consider him one of my favorite people. Early on, he was unfaithful to my Mother. They got through it and he's been faithful ever since. Obviously, I don't know everything about them. My mom was a functional alcoholic during my childhood. She was tough as hell with everyone, except my dad. I hated that he hurt her, but she never wavered in her devotion to him. As a child, I swore I would never tolerate cheating, alcoholism (in myself or a mate) or bullsh!t. Many guys told me I was high maintenance or that no guy could possibly meet my standards. Quite a few told me I wasn't worth it. My dh and I dated for 7 years before marriage and discussed all aspects of our potential future ad nauseam. Dh grew up with fighting parents who hated each other. We both wanted a peaceful, loving, faithful marriage for life and that is precisely what we have.[/quote]

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