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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Me (asking DH after reading this thread): Have you ever cheated on me?
DH: Huh? No?
Me: What do you think about husbands who cheat?
DH (suspiciously): Is this another DCUM thread?
Me: Yes. 
DH: Such men should immediately be shot dead after surgically removing their balls.  Go on and write it on DCUM
Me: :lol:  :lol: [/quote]

What a man![/quote]

Let me tell you about some of the men I know that say the exact same type of thing....and if they have a co-worker or friend that cheats they will tell you how awful, what a scumbag.

They don’t consider when they do it themselves that it’s bad.  I have many very strong, career women friends in their 50s that were blindsided by cheating after 20-years of marriage.

This is why I just roll my eyes at the smugness on this board.  60% infidelity rate.  Some of you are being cheated on...[/quote]

Many are being cheated on. Those who are know it or suspect it.  For others, there is no cheating. As I mentioned before - if a woman will walk out of a marriage because of infidelity and the husband knows it - he will not cheat.  You only cheat when women will take it.  Demanding women are either divorced or in happy no cheating marriages.

My friend's husband has a mistress.  She is neither walking out nor willing to give him a divorce.  She is just hanging on because she will lose the cushy lifestyle he provides.  She has been cheated on many times but she took it. The last time he moved in with a girl as old as his own daughter.  At that she threw a fit and  he just moved in with the mistress.  It is status quo. [/quote]

Nah.  You want to believe you would know or suspect.  My friend’s husband had everyone fooled.  They had sex 4 times per week.  In fact, he was so gah-gah for her.  They openly had so much fun together.  I was jealous of how they were at parties.  They never did separate nights out or weekends.  Both the life of the party.  Both involved in their kids’ lives.  Both make good $.  He had an online affair that he confessed 20 years in that shocked the sh@t out of everyone.  She’s the strongest woman I know and I was at their house all of the time.  The ensuing shock has made me believe anyone is capable....especially after I found out my Beta boss (nice wimpy guy) was having an office affair.  It changed my view of men forever.  His wife ruled the roost at home.  In fact, that’s what drove him into the arms of his colleague.  They both did not like their home lives- being ordered around.

Skype messaging allows for zero tracking—no phone or text records.  A work day screw and nobody is “missing”.

[b]Odds are some of these strong women will experience infidelity.  It is very well hidden.[/b][/quote]

Your friend has a public persona that you believed.  I am not surprised.  You are interpreting the word Demanding as different things - Bossy, bitchy, "ruling the roost", strong, nag.  It is none of these things.  A demanding woman is demanding on herself and her spouse. She does not compromise on who she marries.  She is fully willing to upset the status quo and walk out of a marriage where infidelity is concerned.  They are either happily married to a loyal husband or happily divorced when the husband cheats.  They generally do not attract the losers in the first place.  They are not controlling but they are pretty black and white where infidelity is concerned.  The demand 100% from their spouse and themselves.  Women with very high self-esteem, a loving biological family and the means to stand on their own two feet. [/quote]

So Jeff Bezos was a loser?

What about Sergey Brin?[/quote]

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