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[quote=Anonymous]^ I did talk him into vasectomy

I made him tell his mom who was married to his alcoholic continually cheating father who she finally divorced.  He confronted her and asked questions and why they weren’t put in therapy as kids.

He started seeing a therapist on his own accord 3-4 months ago for anger issues but then his affair cane out and he talked to therapist about it

He’s now seeing therapist 3x per week and will start alcohol program too since he started drinking the last few months

He has many issues.  He has fooled everyone in his life—friends, family, etc.  Nobody knew he was like this.

I have seen there will be no trust of anything he ever says because he can lie so well

I still haven’t contacted anyone since I found out Saturday because I’m reeling, in shock, don’t want stuff getting to my kids

He says he won’t fight me on anything.  Give me whatever I want.  He’s trying to hang onto marriage.

He definitely is a borderline personality or something.

He had 2 separate psych Evals this week.  Both separately came to same conclusion : scored high on narcissism scale (but not clinical) and depression

They recommend no medication for now so he can feel pain process emotion [/quote]

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