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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am.  DH doesn’t want it.  It’s been years since he’s wanted it.  He’s tried a few times, maybe 3 or 4 times in the last year, but stops because he’s not into it or can’t say hard.

I’ve asked him if it’s me, he says it’s not.  I’ve asked him for 3 years to see a doctor, he did last year but hasn’t followed up on bloodwork, and well, we all know this isn’t an emergency visit.

I found lube and he said it’s easy for him to masturbate in the shower.

I am the same weight as when we married.

I have increasingly fantasized about random men, lovers from my twenties, random men I would see out and about, for about two weeks or so when I’m mid-cycle.  I feel like sometimes I need to lock myself in my room for the few days leading up to ovulation.

I could leave and it would be ok financially.  I make enough to live in an apartment or townhome.  I like our life though.  It’s comfortable and stable.  We have kids.  We both had super messed up childhoods and so I really like that I can feed our kids, have a house, see them every day, and basically be stable.

I just miss and want sex.  But eventually I think that will go away when I start menopause, which isn’t really that far away.

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I thought I wrote this. But my DH has not tried in 4 years. I regret marrying him. I don’t resent him as that would mean that I still have feelings for him, and I have none.[/quote]

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