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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]stay away during his custody time[/quote]

Op here. I do completely.[/quote]

That's not at all what you said. You seem to change the story to suit your narrative.[/quote]

Op here. Here is when I’ve intruded on her custody time—last week because of Covid—I came over. In the summer, once or twice.  And a couple of times for specific events—she’s come over to my house or we’ve done the activities cited. Again, I’ve been dating her father for 4 years.  I have never ever slept over during custody time. [/quote]

But you wanted to intrude on her spring break weekend with him.  Don't you understand?  Open your eyes.  This isn't about what's happening now.  It's about what you WANT to do, what you are PLANNING to do.  She knows that this is what it's about.  And you do too, when you're not being willfully obtuse.[/quote]

Op here. No. I didn’t want to intrude which is why I suggested just joining one weekend and not the entire week.  This was a compromise so they can have their spring break. But at some point, something had to give...and my boyfriends family invited me. I am not going to keep hiding.

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So you did intrude on his custody time.  Why did something have to give?  Because you want it to?  Sorry but it was intruding and you're not entitled to do it and have her like it.

His family doesn't mind you because you're not trying to move into their houses.  [/quote]

Enough.  Divorced parents are allowed to move on.  Nothing disrespectful has happened here and your staunch approach is a bit crazy and jaded.[/quote]

They're allowed to do it, but there's no way to force a teenager to like it.  OP doesn't want to admit that she plans to force this on the girl.[/quote]

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